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"MUSIC AS A PROFESSION"
EDUCATIONAL SERIES LAUNCHES JANUARY
20th @ SPACE >>>>>Portland
Music Foundation’s 2010 educational programming to begin with
seminar on getting better gigs
The
Portland Music Foundation begins its 2010 programming with a members-only
educational event January 20 titled
“Learning to Think Like a Talent Buyer”.
The
event will be held at 6:30 pm (doors open at
6 pm) at SPACE Gallery at 538 Congress Street in Portland.
The PMF “Music as a Profession” educational series
is now entering its third year and has already served more than
300 different musicians and music professionals. This event is
for PMF members only. However, membership is available on site
($20.00 for 2010) and provides access to members-only events,
which will include nine seminars in 2010 as well as a number of
discounts at area music-related businesses.
You
can view the enitre 2010 "Music As A Profession" topic
schedule here.
The
Jan. 20 event, “Learning to Think Like a Talent Buyer”
will discuss what talent buyers are looking for with several of
the area’s most experienced, top talent buyers. Moderator
Mark Lourie, PMF board member and VP
at Skyline Music, will ask our panel all your most burning
questions and you’ll learn how to write an email or leave
a message that gets talent buyers’ attention in this ultra-competitive
world.
Frustrated
that your calls and emails to club buyers or other talent buyers
are being ignored? Wondering why? These panelists can help:
Lauren
Wayne
Marketing Director for Live Nation New England, Talent
Buyer for Port City Music Hall
Nick
Bloom
Owner / Talent Buyer / Promoter, Bloom Arts
Ian
Paige
Talent Buyer, Space Gallery
Dan
Millen
Owner / Talent Buyer / Promoter, Rock On! Concerts, Boston
Ryan
Dolan
Local independent talent buyer, Live Nation New Media Marketer,
and touring musician
Each
panelist will be available for questions following the presentation
and discussion.
For
more information, email info@portlandmusicfoundation.org
PMF
TIP OF THE MONTH>>>>>THE
MUSICIAN ENABLERS
by
Loren Weisman @ www.musicthinktank.com
Support
and help can be a funny thing. If some one offers to help someone,
most would hope that they are helping to get that person moving
forward to a better place, closer to success. Or perhaps delivering
some of the tools or resources (including, yes, money) that will
lead to bigger and better things. However, there are those that
become enablers. Their intentions are good, but they may end up
hurting more than they help.
Everyone
has heard the old joke, “what do you call a drummer with no
girlfriend? Homeless!” It’s funny but also, in a number
of cases, true. There are numerous aspiring musicians are supported
by their family, their girlfriends, their boyfriends and plenty
of others when it comes to money. That is not always a bad thing.
If communication is good, if expectations are clear, and the guidelines
for support are set in place before a dollar changes hands, that
help can be worth its weight in gold. That help can bring the artist
to the next level if they are struggling. It can make things a little
easier. It’s not a golden ticket, it’s not a back door
from paying dues and learning invaluable lessons. It simply makes
a long hard road a little easier for a few miles.
The
right help
When
the musician is getting help while he or she is doing all they can
do help themselves, you have a good healthy situation. As the potential
helper, ask if you are you giving money for something specific and
something that will make a difference. Is there a budget in place?
Is the musician planning for both the best and worse case scenarios?
Lastly, is this going to help both in the short term and long term?
If the answer is yes to all these questions, you have a good situation
where helping out will actually be that: helpful.
Whether
you are making a donation, a loan or an investment, the clearer
you and the recipient can be, the better. Define clearly where the
money (or whatever) will go and what it will do. By having an understanding
among all parties as to who you are helping, why you are helping,
what you want to see out of it, when you will be paid back or time
frames if it is a loan and how it will benefit the artist, you magnify
the benefit for everyone involved. Now, some people have very generous
hearts and may genuinely feel they “don’t need to see
anything out of it.” But even so, they will want to see their
gift or loan actually help. They will want it to have the most positive
impact it can, right? Just as the helper is being generous to the
musician, it will help ten fold if the musician is held accountable,
if they clearly understand there is an obligation in accepting a
gift—the obligation to use it well, to deliver on the donor’s
aim of making things better. When the above is not clearly stated
and clearly understood by both sides, it can lead to the wrong help.
The
wrong help
Everyone
has heard the stories or seen the examples: The musician that is
mooching off of a girlfriend, family, or others. The musician that
expects everything to be taken care of for them so they can “concentrate
on their art”. The artist who has absolutely no awareness
how they are using and abusing those around them. You have seen
the movies where the musician is laying on the couch explaining
what he needs to be feeling or what has to happen as the girlfriend
is paying the rent. Outside of the movies, it’s also the phone
and the electric she’s paying as well, in addition to paying
his tab so he can drink at the local music clubs or bars under the
amazing guise of “networking”.
Another
typical scenario: the musician that looks to use given/donated/invested
money for the things that are not going to help his career. That
particular artist that feels eating expensive meals out, hanging
out in bars or spending money on clothes will some how fast forward
their careers. These are the people that are just seeing it as spending
money and not having consideration for how you are trying to help
and flat out abusing that help.
Then
there is that attitude of “help me now and I will bring you
with me as I become a millionaire.” You take care of me now
and I will take care of you later is the other one I love hearing.
It is pure crap, and yet many people waste their time, their money,
and their patience not-really-helping (aka “enabling”)
these musicians to go on doing absolutely nothing.
Recently,
I interviewed a number of women that dated musicians: successful,
failed, and aspiring ones. The stories are a book in themselves.
The things that were said, the promises made, and the explanations
given for the lack of forward motion when they came back looking
for more.
In
the end, those helping lost their money, lost their relationships,
lost their trust in these artists (which carries over to all artists
in most cases, every drummer gets the bill for that one in the joke).
And for all that loss, nothing improved for the artists. It isn’t
a zero sum equation, where at least this person’s loss does
some good over there. Everyone loses because of these supremely
selfish individuals.
This
goes for both sexes, too. Women do it too. People use people, it
is an unfortunate and simple fact of life. The best thing you can
do is watch for situations that are not clear—and which resist
your attempts to clarify what is being asked and to what use it
will be put. If it seems a little shaky, go with your gut feeling.
Conclusion
If
you are going to help out, then make sure it is truly helping and
not enabling. Make sure the details are there. Make sure the clarity
is there. Make sure everyone understands the details. Whether it
is written out or verbally discussed in depth, the answers to those
HOW, WHY, WHAT and HOW questions above need to be clearly understood
by everyone involved. Set goals, set time frames. Set worst case
scenario plans. If you are supporting a guy while he is in the studio,
make sure he is getting a job as soon as he gets out of the studio.
Basic things like that.
Watch
out for those that might use you, take advantage of you, and potentially
end up hurting you. To the musician, remember every minute of every
day that that is a human being with wants and needs of their own
who is helping you, not the life support for a wallet. Show that
you are worth that investment and/or worthy of their generosity.
Do
not enable a musician with serious delusions of grandeur. It’s
that simple: Don’t feed the energy creature. Don’t let
them cost you a small fortune to further the bloating of a big ego.
I am not saying don’t help or don’t be generous. DO
give, DO be generous. But DO look first. Look at what you are doing,
how you are doing it, and if it really will be helpful.
©
2010 Loren Weisman
http://www.braingrenademusic.com
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